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| Topic: Relationships Dear S-----, It’s just my opinion but I think you’re not so bad. The feelings you’re feeling are ones that most people feel. We all like some attention, and we all like to feel that we should sometimes be the center of attention, but I think we also need to have a balance so that we don’t hurt others or ourselves. If you’re with a wonderful person, that is great. And if things between you are great, you need to stick with it. Sometimes it’s easy to want more and more but you have to analyze what you have to make sure you don’t lose it, as it’s hard to find a good thing these days. It sounds like you’ve moved on from your ex so try to get your mind on things other than him- such as your wonderful husband. But as far as what’s been done, i.e. cheating on your husband, just keep that in the vault but make sure you keep things great going forward. But then again it’s just my opinion. S---- wrote: I'm married to the most wonderful man on earth, and it's like the more I get the more I want, I cheated on him before, I don't know why, maybe because I was able to, I feel bad now ,i mean wtf he is tall, muscular, hot “well proportionate”, amazing in bed .....wtf was I thinking and now that I found out my ex is engaged I can't help it to feel bad, not cause I want to be with him hell I duped him cause I was sick of his face, he is just not what I want in a man ,i look at his “fiancé” and think I am sooo much better than her, she is like a 2nd price to him ,but why to I crave attention, I don't even like to be the center of attention and I'm so in love with my husband I would never leave him, am I crazy????. what do u honestly think? Dear A--- O....., It's just my opinion but I think you have to make sure the person feels the same way about you as you do about them. How do you know? You just know. At the same time you want to make sure that your relationship with your parents is not strained. You have to communicate with them so both sides see each others side of things. In the end, you will end up with this person and not your parents, so again you need to make sure you and the person share the same feelings. If you do, then you marry the person. But then again, it's just my opinion. A--- O------ wrote: I'm in love with the most amazing person ever! I can't get my mind off of him and it's so hard not being with him. The problem? My parents won't allow it. Should I 1) marry him? 2) wait a few years for my parents to come around? 3) forget about him? I don't know if you've ever been in a situation like this before but I'd like your honest answer and any words of advice. Thanks! Have a GREAT day!! Dear D---, It's just my opinion, but I think you have to communicate with the person. You have talk it out and express what you feel. You can give it some more time, say 3 months more to see how it goes. If by then things have not changed, it may be time to let go of the person. It's great that you care about someone else but you also have to look out for yourself. But then again, it's just my opinion. D--- wrote: i been going wit this person for two months and since we got together he has not had a job. i love this person but i am tired of working overtime to support us. The person is looking for a job but damn how long does it take to find a job. what should i do BACK TO: MY Opinions © 2006-2011 itsjustmyopinion.com inc. |